Subversive Shrink: Post-Graduate Malaise

Subversive Shrink: Post-Graduate Malaise
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Dear Subversive Shrink, I spent years in graduate school. I spent tons of money and time to get a fancy degree, and years later I find myself often wondering if I am “cut out” for the work that I do. I’m young, but I have zero interest in going back to school to try again

Subversive Shrink: Being a Good Ally

Subversive Shrink: Being a Good Ally
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If your workplace has an ethics code, brush up and become empowered via information. Know what you are expected or required to address and how. Also, explore your workplace culture and the safety of reporting and know who will support you. It takes a village to be an ally! … read more

Subversive Shrink: The Power of Subversive Dialogues

Subversive Shrink: The Power of Subversive Dialogues
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Dear Subversive Shrink, I have a family member who is quite patriarchal in an almost WASP sort of way, and I’m seeking to reevaluate how to respond to their expressions of their ideologies, with which I disagree. On one hand, many years ago, I was inspired when Jello Biafra advised to simply talk to somebody

Subversive Shrink: Chronic Family Obligation Fatigue Syndrome

Subversive Shrink: Chronic Family Obligation Fatigue Syndrome
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How do I combat Chronic Family Obligation Fatigue Syndrome and the urge to argue gender (or any) politics at the family table? Ignoring it seems to leave me angry, but arguing seems just as blood boiling. … read more